Parents are indeed the greatest blessings of Allah Almighty. One of the greatest titles in the world is parent and one of the biggest blessings in the world is to have parents to call Mom and Dad. Parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious gift that God has ever given you. They love and care without any personal benefit. They bear many hardships just to raise you well. Every parent bring up their children in a different way Everyone has a different parenting style but the question is does everyone do justice with their parenting style?
There are some parents who often neglect their children. It is one of the most harmful parenting style which can cause a great damage. If you are not giving time to your children than you will never be able to develop that comfort and friendly environment in your home. Few things define that how much you are neglectful towards your child:
Not 40% or 50% infact 90% of the parents don’t do justice with their children. Still Many parents do injustice between their son and daughters because in many places daughters are considered to be a burden. Their love, affection and care are totally different for both genders because of their stupid concept that their son will take care of them in the future but their daughter will leave. The messenger of Allah said :
‘Whoever had a daughter born to him and he did not bury her alive or humiliate her and he did not prefer his son over her. Allah (S.W.T) will admit him to paradise because of her’.
Such parents try to get involve in each and every matter of their child. They want to know in detail that what’s happening in their child’s life. Modern communication technology has promoted this style by enabling parents to keep watch over their kids through cell phones, emails and online monitoring of academic grades. This style is somehow good for their child but in every relation space is very important if you are not giving space to your child than your child will definitely get irritated and fed up which is not a healthy sign.
Such parents who are demanding but not responsive. Such parents who set their own rules and expect that their child will follow them. They don’t let their child to speak about his/her desires. They usually rely on punishment to demand obedience or teach a lesson. Children of such parents are:
No doubt parent’s love is pure and genuine but they are human being. They can do mistakes but they need to focus on these facts. The way we teach our children or the way we talk to them becomes their inner voice. The best way to raise positive children in this negative world is to:
Live so that whenever your child think of Love, care, integrity They think of you. It is easy for parents to have children but it’s not that easy for children to have real parents.