Physical Characteristics can include variety of things, physical characteristics are what you see with your naked eye which includes your facial expression, your skin color etc. People often says that beauty isn’t about having a pretty face, it’s about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart and a pretty soul. But that’s not true, the fact is that people often fall for a pretty face and they often make fun of those who have a dull complexion. People start commenting the day we born and this is so common in Pakistan that when the child enter in this world he/she become the victim of words.
In Life there are usually two aspects in a certain type of conflict : body image and social pressure, we always live under the pressure of society that what people will think about us or about our physical appearance. You will meet number of people in your life that will have their own opinion. Number of times u have to listen society and you can’t help it.
The day you born people start commenting on you and if you born with a dark complexion than you have to bear the words of people for long. Complexion plays an important role in our society especially in Pakistan even if you have prominent features with dark complexion than u will be included in the list of average looking people but if you have a fair complexion with average features than you will be included in the list of beautiful people just because your complexion is fair, because in Pakistan ‘gora chitta hona’ is much much important.
When it comes to your marriage process than get ready for rejections multiple time because you are not upto their level of ‘Chand si Bahu’ I don’t know what they have to do with her complexion I mean what if you have a ‘Chand si bahu’ with rude and impolite personality. Is it tolerable?
The weight of a girl is very Important, if she is chubby than she will listen different remarks from people but if a guy is chubby than remarks will be totally opposite. If a guy is chubby than people will say ‘ MashaAllah bari sehat bnae hai’ or ‘Khatai peetai ghar sai lgta hai’ but on other hand if a girl is chubby than people will start calling her ‘Aunty’ or ‘ Lose your weight otherwise no one will marry you’. Isn’t it funny that in Pakistan the marriage of a girl depends on her weight.
Now height is another issue in Pakistan and the comments on height have to be faced by both genders, if you are long heighted than people will say ‘ khamba lg rae hai’ and if you are short heighted than people will say ‘ Boni lg rae hai’. Height isn’t a purely asthetic feature on which you comment but society thinks that it’s their moral duty to keep on commenting on people on their physical appearance. Boys with short height and girls with tall height suffer more.
Sadly it doesn’t matter that how you look people are going to judge you and are going to comment on you. No doubt outer beauty often leads to inner beauty but still in the end inner beauty works because outer beauty capture the eyes but your inner beauty capture the heart. People often make themselves sad after the comments that’s their stupidity because there is a person who is going to love you from heart, they will not bother your outer beauty and rest of others should not matter to you. What you can do is to engage yourself with people who will accept you rather than to engage yourself with people who will reject you. If someone comments on you than kill them with your kindness it will definitely work. The most important thing is self love, u should be confident about your beauty, if you think that you are pretty than no one will dare to comment on your beauty.